My Cousin Angela recently remarried in an unusual wedding ceremony.
I received an
invitation in the post about a month before the wedding. The card had a reproduction of a painting of Antony and Cleopatra on the front and inside was printed the date, time and place of the ceremony. When I asked my mother about the wedding, she said Luke and Angela were going to dress up as Antony and Cleopatra and make a big theme party of it.
I arrived early at the wedding venue so I could watch the
pictures being taken. The couple had chosen to hold the ceremony and reception in the grounds of a magnificent
Country House. The
gardens of the house provided a stunning backdrop for the ceremony, boasting a collection of rare plants, gloriously coloured seasonal wild flowers and majestic trees. Angela was being
photographed next to the lake wearing a beautiful strapless wrap around
gown with a sheer gold cape. The fabric of the
dress was white with golden threads woven into it. Her naturally dark and curly
hair had been straightened by her
hairdresser and she wore a stunning Egyptian-style gold
tiara across her brow. The Egyptian effect was complete by the
bride’s make up. An extremely skilled
makeup artist had been hired to transform Angela into Cleopatra, with particular focus on the almond eye look which is synonymous with the ancient Egyptians. The
bridesmaids wore beautiful gold and white Egyptian-style
dresses and black wigs. The
groomsmen wore Roman guard uniforms.
A large
marquee had been set up on the lawn and I was astonished at what I saw inside. The
marquee had been
decorated with the taste of ancient Egypt as well as a splash of ancient Rome. The support poles were shaped like
pillars and had been
decorated with Egyptian hieroglyphics.
Brass incense burners hung from the roof, replica Egyptian
statues of specific gods and animals had been placed in all the corners and throughout the marquee there were
Egyptian pouffes, footstools, carpets and other replica Egyptian treasures. The tables were covered with gold trimmed white
linen tablecloths and on the centre of each had been placed a miniature
Egyptian statue. Each place was set with golden plates and matching cutlery and glasses. A scroll candle holder
favour was sat in the centre of each plate. The overall effect was extremely authentic. I later learned that the couple had enlisted the assistance of a
wedding coordinator to source the
décor.
Some of the guests had begun to line up at the
buffet table at the far side of the marquee. The
table had similarly been covered with white linen with fresh
floral garlands around the edge. On the
table were stuffed grape leaves and stuffed olives, stuffed spinach pasta shells and artichokes with butter sauce. The
bartender was also
dressed as an Egyptian. I tried some of the olives and grape leaves with a glass of white Sebastiani wine.
Everyone ate and chatted for a while until a man in a Roman
costume raised a
heralding trumpet to his lips, blew a half dozen notes, and announced that the ceremony was about to begin. Everyone filed out of the
marquee and took seats in the
chairs that had been set up in front of an arbor that looked like
miniature roman temple.
Artificial ivy had been wound around the columns and the
minister stood beneath in a simple
white cloth toga trimmed in gold. I sat on the bride's side with my Uncle Joe.
A
harpist in a
Roman-style gown began to play a beautiful tune as the wedding party walked down the aisle. Angela’s father was dressed as Julius Cesaer. Angela looked so beautiful and elegant carrying a bouquet of exotic
flowers as they walked to the temple. Luke looked very handsome in a
tunic of red and gold with a white cloak trimmed in gold. He wore a crown of golden leaves on his head and his
hair had even been curled Roman-style. Angela’s father placed her hand in Luke's and they turned to face the
minister who performed a traditional Christian wedding ceremony.
After the exchanging of vows and after the couple had placed gold
wedding rings on each others fingers, the minister brought out two golden goblets. Angela and Luke each took one and the minister poured Sebastiani wine into each. The newlyweds then drank from the cups as a symbol of two becoming one. After their cups were empty "Anthony" kissed "Cleopatra". It was so wonderful it made me wish I was getting married soon!
While the families were getting
pictures taken with the bride, groom and wedding party, everyone returned to the
marquee and discovered a
wedding band had set up where the
appetizer buffet had been. They played a variety of music from classical to modern. I danced with Uncle Joe and a friend of Angela’s from work called Shawn.
The Toastmaster announced the arrival of the Bride and Groom. Everyone stood and applauded as they and the wedding party took their places at the head table. A wedding
videographer captured Angela and Luke's grand entrance.
The best man stood up first to give his toast. His
speech was short, but touching and humorous. The maid of honour was Angela’s sister Sara and she stood up next to give her
speech and
toast the couple. She wished them well and told Luke that if he ever made her sister cry, she'd do the same to him. Everyone laughed!
There was a choice of lasagna, Koshari (an Egyptian macaroni dish), or fish for the
main course. Every entree came with mixed vegetables and pilaf rice.
After
dinner Angela and Luke danced their first dance as husband and wife. After the first song the
toastmaster announced the father daughter dance and mother son dances. Angela’s father danced with her and Luke's mother danced with him. Then he called the wedding party up to dance to the next song and after that dancing was open to all guests.
An hour later, the band took a break and once again the
toastmaster announced it was time for the
bouquet toss. I came so close to catching the
bouquet it was cruel. Sally, another friend from Angela’s work, was the lucky girl. The
band played some sexy music while Luke slowly removed Bertha's garter. Everyone hooted and hollered while the single men stood in a line. Luke shot the garter over his shoulder and everyone groaned when my nine year old cousin, Billy, caught it.
After that "Anthony" took a long dagger out of its sheath and "Cleopatra" stood in front of him with her hands on his while he cut the wedding
cake. They lovingly fed each other a piece. The three tiered wedding
cake was cherry filled with golden icing. It looked too beautiful to eat, but after I tasted how good it was--no problem.
After Angela and Luke thanked everyone for coming they left in a white
limo bound for the airport and their
honeymoon in Egypt. The rest of us stayed a while longer and enjoyed some more dancing.